Follow Up To Chris Perez’s Divorce
If there is something we have learned since we started latingossip.com is that there is always more than one side to a story…
On Wednesday, we mentioned that Chris Perez’s wife, Vanessa, had filed for divorce. The first version we heard was that he was partying too much…if you get what we mean.
NOW, we’re hearing that Vanessa is no saint herself. Rumor has it that she wants to become a celebrity and thought that being with Chris and the connections with The Quintanillas would help her achieve fame. Obviously, her plan failed…
PLUS, there are accusations that BOTH sides have been having flings on the side…so apparently nobody has been faithful. Never good.
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Lola wrote:
Here we go! Like we didn’t expect this girl to start being trashed…………Chris should just go ahead and change his last name to Quintanilla……………
05.02.2008 | 9:30 am | Link
Karina Vidal wrote:
I HATE WHEN GIRLS HACEN ESO!! POR ESO DICEN QUE TODAS SOMOS IGUALES =( PERO NO ES CIERTO HAY GOOD GIRLS EN ESTE MUNDO!!
05.02.2008 | 11:42 am | Link
AA wrote:
Tontos never learn. They marry (alleged) strippers who (allegedly) use hard-core drugs and expect them to turn into saints as soon as the wedding bells ring.
Sorry no link, I’ve just heard if from sooo many people in Corpus. On the other hand, not too many have good things to say about the ABQ gang (from La Conquista to DJ Cane to all the backup dancer dudes) in CC. They aren’t choirboys either..as evidenced by their hijinx on the chisme shows all the damn time.
05.02.2008 | 2:08 pm | Link
AA wrote:
Also, is my screen resolution bad or is Chris wearing an eyepatch? Now he’s a pinche pirate?
05.02.2008 | 2:11 pm | Link
Missy wrote:
this is interesting especially since AB posted on his blog announcement on the KumbiaAllStarz myspace on March 31 that Chris was NOT leaving the band ‘n wanted to stop the rumors. maybe his wife was mad about it and wanted him to leave but he didnt. all of CC is talking about it iam sure
05.02.2008 | 9:48 pm | Link
MexicanBOY wrote:
ATTENTION WHORES!!
WHO CARES??
05.03.2008 | 2:23 pm | Link
Moi wrote:
Él es el tabaquismo y caliente No me importa si se trata de un perro o no sólo quiero probarlo
05.03.2008 | 4:04 pm | Link
alessandraJordan wrote:
MEXICAN BOY. stfu! if you didnt care why are leaving a comment, and why are you reading about this then?
05.03.2008 | 6:03 pm | Link
alessandraJordan wrote:
Well, I wish them both the best in dealing with this situation. I hope they think about their two beautiful kids and what is going to work for them because they are the people who brought them into this world. I wish Chris the BEST in his music career as in his personal life. He has been through alot over the years if he can move on with his life get re-married and have kids after the loss of Selena then he can make it through ANYTHING. Even though I dont know Vanessa but, o wish her the best in moving on with this divorce. And maybe someday she can find someone who will be there for her emotionally and physicall. At the end of the day, I hope this two AMAZING parents reliaze THEY NEED TO MAKE A DECISON THAT WILL BENFIT THEIR KIDS IN THE LONG RUN. Best of luck to this family.
05.03.2008 | 6:13 pm | Link
moi wrote:
FInally here are some pics of Chris Perezs wife///soon to be ex-wife Vanessa
\http://members.tripod.com/~cincosouls/family.html
05.04.2008 | 11:59 am | Link
JR wrote:
For everybody reading this article above. The most believable of these allegations is that chris was partying too much. He’s on the road with AB and his gang and do u think after a show they just go to bed?? of course not!! They want to party and when u have money the partying can get out of hand and could make the most loving house wife want a divorce. as for vanessa wanting to become a celebrity? i dont see this is possible when she made no attempt at a singing career and also went straight to having kids so a modeling career is out the window as well.
05.06.2008 | 5:36 pm | Link
DoraJean wrote:
I feel bad for the kids thats the sad thing about it as for them they are adults they can handle anything but not the kids they are innocent & as far as the gossip of Vanessa wanting to become somebody that is a lied she just wanted to be married to husband that she wanted at home after his job & as far as Chris going on with AB THE PIG
now lets see if AB will replace his family kids are not replaceable those are your kids, your blood, & proud of them. That is sad i feel bad for Chris
05.06.2008 | 7:54 pm | Link
Shantell wrote:
What can this ex stripper expect, for Chris to become a saint after she would do drugs with him?
05.06.2008 | 8:16 pm | Link
Carla wrote:
Everyone knows that we all have one true love in our lives and thats what Chris Perez had with Selena. After her tragic death, he hit rock bottom and Venessa instead of helping him through that has dragged him even deeper along the years. You are supposed to help your husband get out of drugs and lead him into the right path. How can you see the father of your children drink himself to death and not do anything about it. Now people want to bring AB Quintanilla into this, sure blame someone else for it why dont you. The reality is that everyone in the band knew that Chris was cheating on her because they all know the girl, even Venessa does so why does she wait until now to divorce him.
05.07.2008 | 9:17 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
venessa never wanted fame and she and no there was NO FORTUNE!!!!! she is a beatuiful and loving mother and was a very supportive wife. she Never wanted this divorce she wanted to stick this through no matter what. She just honored his wishes. she Never cheated and still honors her marriage to this day. she devoted all of her self to this marriage 100%. She still loves him. so please stop any rumers bacause it will only hurt the kids in the long run
05.07.2008 | 11:29 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
venessa never wanted fame and she and no there was NO FORTUNE!!!!! she is a beatuiful and loving mother and was a very supportive wife. she Never wanted this divorce she wanted to stick this through no matter what. She just honored his wishes. she Never cheated and still honors her marriage to this day. she devoted all of her self to this marriage 100%. She still loves him. so please stop any rumers bacause it will only hurt the kids in the long run
05.07.2008 | 11:29 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
The one that should also think about the children is her. Doesn’t she realize that by going public with this, she is only hurting the children. All that is being said in the press is not going away. Years from now her children can see what her mother was doing to their father. I dont argue or deny the accusations of drug use, but she needs to admit that she is no angel herself when it comes to that. Did she forget already that she did or still does drugs? Chris loves his children and will be there for them no matter what. Does smoking weed with your husband mean that you’re being a supportive wife? Lets be honest here and not only disclose what Chris is doing wrong, she has her part too.
05.07.2008 | 3:20 pm | Link
Tea wrote:
Carla, I have to agree with you. This has apparently been an open secret and Venessa has gotten into some public altercations with this “other” woman on MySpace several times and, in fact, that is what led to her making her profile private. Also, it seems that she is the one who wanted to be a rocker chick so she made him into a rocker but then he went off on a different path that she could not contain. She’s going around telling people that she loves him with all her heart but she is letting him go because she thinks someone else is trying to steal his heart. What drama! Firstly, she’s known all along that he had a problem with substance abuse - he was already into it when they met in 1997. And, as someone has pointed out here, she was smoking weed, too. Plus, she’s made myriad comments about his drinking in posts on various MySpace profiles. Secondly, if she only “thinks” that someone else is trying to steal his heart (what drama!) why did she initiate the divorce? More importantly, why is she seeking a restraint order against him, a lien on his earnings and property, and discouraging interaction with his kids (he apparently is not too keen on having interactions with his son btw). Of course, it’s a horrible situation but she’s done nothing to try and curtail it. If anything, she’s been quite, um, supportive of it! I suppose if she could pull off fooling him about not knowing who Selena was, she can fool other people as well. I don’t think this is about her wanting to be famous or not. It’s about a marriage gone horribly wrong but I think she’s contributed her fair share to things being where they are. I think there’s a fine line between being supportive and being complict.
05.07.2008 | 6:18 pm | Link
team venessa wrote:
OK LOOK ALL OF YOU STUPID FUCKS CAN STOP TALKING TRASH ABOUT MY AUNT OK?!?!? ITS NOT HER FAULT OR ANYTHING CHRIS IS THE ONE WHO IS FUCKING HER OVER SO DONT BE TALKING SHIT UNLESS YOU GOT YOUR INFORMATION YOU STUPID SHITHEADS!!!
PS:LEAVE MY AUNT ALONE!!!!
05.08.2008 | 1:14 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
and chris aint no saint either chris does fucking coke and weed and he cheated on venessa im her fucking family you stupid dip shits i wouldnt lie about this crap!!!
05.08.2008 | 1:18 am | Link
Missy wrote:
And I guess her fling with her buddy Eric over in Corpus makes all of that okay…….she was out partying it up this past weekend. Know that about your Aunt??
If she thinks she is gonna get her hands on his property that he owned with Selena, she’s in for a real fight. The Quintanillas will never allow that. And as for her not knowing who Selena was, that’s crap. She knew.
05.08.2008 | 8:06 am | Link
TM wrote:
How did she go public with it? she filed for divorce, gave reasons why she thinks Chris should have supervised visits…thats what you do when you divorce. She didn’t invite those cameras down to the court house…you could tell she was mad they were there. The documents became public and that’s how people are finding out…shes hasn’t once said n e thing to the media about what happened. There are two sides of the story and nobody knows either side right now and its nobodies business.
05.08.2008 | 8:54 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Well “Tea” I have to agree with you on almost everything, but I will have to disagree on the part about him not being too fond of spending time with his son. If there is something no one can deny is that Chris loves his kids with all his heart. The reason being on the road was so hard for him was because he didn’t like being away from his kids. His two kids are his life, he would do anything to protect them and he will be there for them no matter what. Hopefully his soon to be ex wife does not make it hard for him to continue being a father to those kids after the divorce. If anyone is from Corpus, it is no secret that she is seeing Eric on the side. Why does she complain about Chris being with this other girl then?
05.08.2008 | 9:50 am | Link
Tea wrote:
Hey Team Chris, to be perfectly candid, I was very surprised to read that he was not “necessarily” seeking access to Noah. In fact, that has been used as the underlying reason for requesting restricted interaction with Cassie.
As for the Team Venessa fuckhead, yeah, go tell your slut of an aunt that her bluff of playing the poor damsel who’s been oh-so-supportive and innocent has been called one too many times. If she’s such a fucking “private person” why does she live out her life in full MySpace view? If you’re so sensitive about your aunt, maybe you should be commiserating with her instead of trying to fool people here.
05.08.2008 | 10:15 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
everybody needs to leave these two people alone. for one venessa comes to corpus she comes to corpus to spend time with her family. her sisters her brothers and her father. its nobodys business that he is very ill. what i think its nobodys businiess that shes in corpus. you are in saying that there is an affair with this guy Eric. i know for a fact she has been faithfull with chris for the past 11 years. and i have my facts straight not like you all whom do not have your facts straight. venessa is a clean hearted woman who cares about her kids and husband. she cares about her family and espically her father who is sick right now. i know too chris is a lovinf father who loves his daughter and truly loves his son. but its hard too be a rock star and too be a family man at the same time. you cant leave your private life away from your public life you cannot combine it it doesnt work. either you lose one or the other. appraently what happened here the parting could not stop once he came back to his family. so thats why theres a break up in this marriage. yes she might have her faults too. but its hard too be a mother to be a wife and to be a friend to his party friends. but i think it took more of a person and thats her to put a stop to this beacause there are children involved. because you dont want your children to become drug addicts. that is why she is doing what shes doing to put a stop to it
05.08.2008 | 10:18 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
there is no affair with a man named eric. i am her sister and she was with me in corpus . not with a man named eric. tea you dont know my sister and calling her those names were uncalled for. shes a beautiful person and anyone that knows her knows that she would give the shirt off her back. so would chris for that matter. i love both of them and i think all this word calling is unnessary. you hurting people you dont know. she never wanted the fame and she never contacted anyone one about this divorce. it bacame public once the court documents were out. she is a very private person. she never let anyone take any pictures of her in the entire 11 years they were together. all she wanted was a loving home for her family. she will always love her husband no matter what . as for the kids she would never stop him from seeing anyone of them. chris loves them both equally. so please watch what names your calling someone you dont know. just for the record what you call the kids mother will be read by other people and the one that will be hurt is her daughter because her friends parents read this stuff and they will one tell her and that is not neccessary. your hurting a child you dont know. so please watch your name calling remember the kids will hear about this and they are inncocent.
05.08.2008 | 10:31 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Aside from all the rumors and drama involved with this divorce I sincerely hope that the kids are not hurt in the process. Venessa and Chris will go their separate ways and move on with their lives but the kids will always be there needing their father. Chris is an amazing person and if he’s made bad decisions along the way is because of all the things he’s gone through. Losing the love of your life and TRYING to make a life with someone else is no easy task. You will never love another person like you love your soul mate. Im sorry for Venessa but she could never compete with someone so kind hearted and HONEST like Selena.
05.08.2008 | 11:01 am | Link
Tea wrote:
Hey Venessa’s sister, if you are going to chastise for name-calling, you should begin with some self-reflexivity and admonish your son/daughter for starting the name-calling. You can’t expect him/her to call other people names and for them to not respond in kind. Secondly, please think again before you make sweeping claims like “she never let anyone take any pictures of her in the entire 11 years they were together” because you know that’s not true. Of course, if you mean she never let the media take pictures, then I’ll grant you that but please don’t over-generalize because you, and other people on this website, have seen many pictures of them together. Need I name some that stand out?
As far as your coming to your sister’s defense is concerned, it’s all very well. But don’t obfuscate the issue - it’s not about whether she’s beautiful or kind or whatever. Rather, I think the comment was about affairs/flings/flirtations and getting caught up in semantics is not going to change whatever truth there is out there.
As for the “private person” charade, true, she didn’t ask for the cameras to be at the courthouse but how private can someone be if they send an email to a casual acquaintance saying “bad news…..chris and I are getting a divorce. He moved out a week ago. Im sorry to say….I still love him with my whole heart.I think theres someone else trying to take his heart away so I have to let him go. V”?
I can’t help but wonder if you’re the same sister who was tracking two of Chris’ pictures up for sale on eBay a few years ago. In fact, when the pictures sold, you got in touch with the winning bidder and offered to have the pictures signed by Chris and embarked on a three year email exchange with this person during which time you sent her a picture of Chris and Venessa’s wedding but, of course, with the request to not share it. Not just that, but you also sent her a CPB t-shirt. So, with such mixed messages, please don’t be surprised if people don’t fall for this whole “privacy” thing.
And finally, maybe Cassie needs to have new friends if their parents are such lowballs that they would read stuff off of gossip websites and go tell her. Peace!
05.08.2008 | 11:55 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
we never sold pictures of chris on ebay. he sold his cd’s which he autographed. which he new about. i also met a great person from that sale and yes befriended her for 3 years. also she bought the cpb shirt off ebay. so get your facts straight.
as for my daughter she never sent that message. it was somebody else. i have no idea who.
as for cassies friends everyone is reading all of this so you should watch what you say. its just not cool.
tea i dont know you but please just watch whom your hurting. these are great people who are just going thru something alot couples go through. it just so happens they hit the spot light. please be kind and dont shoot daggers. everyone has feelings and sometimes words can hurt when someone is real down.
if you knew venessa you would know shes a good soul . chris is just as wonderful.
god bless you tea.
05.08.2008 | 12:14 pm | Link
Missy wrote:
Here’s a question:
If cameras were at the courthouse when she filed her papers, how would any of the media know to be there, unless she (or someone she knew) tipped them off? If it was such a private thing, then how come it turned not so private so fast? Just a thought…..
AND I haven’t seen any pictures from her at the courthouse anywhere in the paper or on the net. If you know where they ended up, please let me know.
05.08.2008 | 12:43 pm | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Thanks “tea” for all the facts, you’re really letting people know what the truth is.
05.08.2008 | 1:08 pm | Link
Chris Perez VS Venessa Villanueva Perez - Latin Gossip wrote:
[…] PS - Check out the comments that have been left on a previous published entry about Chris and Venessa. That in itself is a battle. […]
05.08.2008 | 1:48 pm | Link
JENNIE wrote:
i hope chris is doing ok!! i love him and his music…but omg i cant believe everything that is happenning with them. also she knew who Chris was and who he was with…Selena is know worldwide and so is Chris as her loving husband…i hope chris the best and his childern as well..
also about her not wanting her kids to be drug addicts i think that is a messed up thing to say…not because your parents are drug addicts means that you will be one… ppl make there own choices and just blam it on other ppl….but i love and respect Chriss. i will always fallow Chris where ever get goes! keep your head up Chris! much love
p.s
i cant believe she didnt know who Selena was and sjes from Courpus!! was she living under a rock!
05.08.2008 | 2:35 pm | Link
cat wrote:
i wish chris, venessa, and especially the kids the best. divorce are tough, and often times hard to cope with. i’m sure it is a sad situation for not only chris, venessa, and the kids but also for both the perez and villanueva families. may god bless you all!
05.08.2008 | 3:45 pm | Link
Jen wrote:
Just a note to all of Chris’ and Vanessa’s family & Friends. You all are pretty sad. You sit here and talk crap back and forth and say this and that but none of you knows what goes on in their bedroom or house at all times, and people especially mexicans, exagerate con el chisme. Drugs are harsh but it seems like they both participated and maybe they should both go to rehab for the sake of their children. No one here should throw stones because we all have skeletons. I am a fan and will always be. He will overcome this just like he did all of the other obsticales that have been put before him. As far as his daughters friends reading this and telling her stuff seems like both sides are guilty of saying negative things. If you really love them the way you say you do just pray that they get through this and survive. You all are just hateful people fighting a fight that is not yours to fight.
05.08.2008 | 4:39 pm | Link
M wrote:
Like I said on the other page… Everyone needs to get their facts straight. No more rumors. Come on people…. I have a feeling I know who everyone is on this page and its really sad. Twisting words to try to get your side to be the best.(from Myspace?? Please…) Looks like you are the one sticking your nose where it doesn’t belong. Grow up! People get divorced every day, marraiges fail, people go on. Its really sad that people make things worse than they are. Why do you think Britney went psyco?? Media, rumors and false drama. I can pretty much guarantee that the divorce wouldn’t have been as eventful if people would have just minded their own business. Again I will say GROW UP and I am done with this site. You can talk all the stuff you want and just remember ……. What goes around comes around.. The truth will come out and honestly… God will take care of the rest. PEACE!!!
05.08.2008 | 7:47 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Pls! Not eveyone knew who selena was. And those of you in the click knew selena wanted a divorce too! She was about to leave Chris and her sorry ass band! She was miserable! I know this for a fact! Venessa good luck too you you deserve more in life!
Good luck to kumbia queer coke heads! Kookoo lol so gay!
05.08.2008 | 11:43 pm | Link
Jessica wrote:
I wish Selena was still alive! Chris would have been so much happier…. Don’t worry Chris everything will work out for the best…
05.09.2008 | 9:17 am | Link
Rose wrote:
There is always two sides to a divorce. One I can see Vanessa being a money hungry person because if she wants all the properties and not let Chris have somewhere for him. She says that she wants to work on it well if that’s the case she shouldn’t have filed for divorce. On the other hand if Chris is doing all types of partying and drugs then that will take a toll on a marriage. The only ones that know what is going on behind closed doors are those two and it shouldn’t have been made public. No matter what is said of written, the children always are the ones who hurt the most. I hope for everyone involved Chris and Vanessa can come to a happy medium for the kids sakes.
05.09.2008 | 10:05 am | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Lets just face the facts here. Chris still loves Selena and no other woman will ever match up to her. Enough said!
05.09.2008 | 11:19 am | Link
Nunya wrote:
as i thought this sight is biased. sad, that you just want to be a breeding ground for hate and dicontent by only posting what you think is juicy no matter what the cost i.e. the children that you pretend to care about.
05.09.2008 | 11:25 am | Link
JP wrote:
Why are “friends & family” of these two arguing this on here? Shit with people like that who needs enemies. If you care for, and love, them so much; why not stay quiet. As someone said, why are you fighting a battle that is not yours to fight.
And as for someone stating that the parents of the daughter’s friends read this site and will tell her what is being said. If that is true - those parents are retarded lowlifes and the child should be kept away from them. To lower yourself to the level of a child and tell her negative things that are being said about her parents shows a TREMENDOUS level of immaturity.
05.09.2008 | 1:44 pm | Link
natalie wrote:
um to the person with the comment about selena, you’re getting that bull from yolanda’s rumors and maria celleste’s book. in truth, actually, selena and chris were designing their dream house together, were in the process of purchasing 10 acres of land, she had picked out the furniture for their new house, and the day before she died she told her mom and sister that her and chris wanted to start a family. she had a doctors appointment to get her birth control device removed schedualed for the following tuesday. and to top if off, chris said in an interview “then the last night we were together we said everything to each other. i told her how i felt and she told me how she felt and everything was just perfect, you know?” oh and she had put up stickers on her mirror that read “selena and chris forever” and “i love you, chris.” yeah. i had to do a project on her for school so that’s how i know this…i had to research it all.
and about the chris and venessa thing, its sad. i hope they can possibly work something out and hopefully the kids will be hurt as little as possible.
05.09.2008 | 5:34 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
get over it girl! she’s dead! i hope you got an A on your project you sound obsessed…calm down already!
Selena is in a way better place now. Im sure she turning in her grave over all this. Keep up the good work Psycho Selena fans!
05.09.2008 | 5:46 pm | Link
natalie wrote:
sorry, i didn’t mean to sound obsessed. im actually not, i wouldn’t have time to obsess over anything anyways. haha. i just finished the project this week for spanish, that’s the only way i remember everything, and it was worth a ton of points so that’s why i learned so much. i’m just trying to prove my point. sorry, i didn’t mean to come off mean or obsessed. and ur right, she is in a better place and it’s stupid to discuss it anyways. this whole divorce thing in general with venessa is none of our business. i just wish them the best.
05.10.2008 | 1:06 am | Link
George wrote:
wow, the basura really shows up on here sometimes. vanessa is a hoe, flat out. if there any doubt, even among her loyal family members, ask any of the guys who remember her back in her stripper days! isnt it funny how the worst of the low-lifes are always such wonderful people? straight “A” students and model parents and all-around great citizens? our government has it all wrong; we’re sending all these great people to prison. she’s trash from a family of trash.
05.10.2008 | 1:10 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Dont all men love hoe’s…i mean shit, as bad to even get married! go figure….
05.10.2008 | 9:24 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
Noah and Cassie, you’re mommy and daddy love you very much and would never ever try to hurt you. I’m so sorry that you will later hear or read all this stuff being said about the two most important people in your life, and you shouldn’t let it hurt you. Mommy and Daddy aren’t the ones saying this stuff, only ugly hearted and hateful people
Venessa, I know your hearts in the right place and people are real quick to assume and judge out of just ignorance. I know it sucks to open up to someone and trust them with your life via phone,
e-mail (MySpace) and they in turn betray you, but they will never really know the real damage and suffering that is involved. They will get what’s coming to them. I’ll pray for all of you to overcome other people’s hate.
Chris….people have made it so hard for you to move on with your life; You have every right to move on and love again. I don’t understand why people would condemn you for loving and having a family. I know it’s effected you so I’m apologizing for them, because they know no better. You and Venessa both have a past and the beautiful thing is that you two accepted eachother and loved eachother with yalls faults. The Love is Still There.
Dallas, take care of the family while things get worked out. Don’t allow all the hateful things to come into the house.
05.12.2008 | 1:45 am | Link
ccbling wrote:
In ref to Janet’s coment:
That was well said! This is crazy and out of control like this gives so many people power with words.
At the end no one really knows the truth.
Venessa is great mother and wife & Chris is a good man. We sometimes as humans get caught up in the evils of life. God always has a plan.
God Bless, you both and to the rest of you people who need Christ in your life….
05.12.2008 | 9:37 am | Link
jennieChrisTEAM! wrote:
i agree with Janet i hope everything gets better i just wish chris and His family the best. whatever makes them happy…Chris i also apologies for everyone that has gave you a hard time for moving on. i lost both of my parents and you have to move on abnd be happy thats what they want.and if it doesnt work out well at least you tried. its better to have tried and failed than to have never tried…keep your head up!!! from a True FAN! i wish u and your family the best at heart. take care of him Janet!! and tell him we support him 100% on what ever dission he makes. =)
05.12.2008 | 9:40 am | Link
eva wrote:
thanks so much janet it makes all of us think twice before we write. by the way who is dallas
05.12.2008 | 12:19 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
Dallas is their dog that is so protective of his family. He senses the difference in the children and has become so involved in giving extra comfort and closeness with these very innocent children. It’s so very sad to see the hurt and fear this family is going through on both ends. Love, Money or fame was never the issue. No matter what the issues are it’s up to Chris and Venessa to work out on their own. A mother’s first instinct is to protect her children and Venessa is being critisized for wanting her children to have stability. Chris is a great father and unfortunately has a career that takes him away from them for periods of time, but that does not make him less of a father. There should be no “team Venessa” or “team Chris”. This family has a lot to deal with and knowing that there are such negative people against them doesn’t help.
05.12.2008 | 2:23 pm | Link
JENNIE wrote:
your right Janet…i hope him the best i have never wished them anything bad. i hope things get better. i hope they can work things out for there kids.
05.12.2008 | 2:31 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Sorry Sorry, I don’t mean to be hurtful. It just seems to me that all the drugs, affairs, etc are the product of losing his true soul mate. I wish nothing but the best for Chris and his family. My heart will always go out to him.
05.12.2008 | 4:25 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off - divorce filing states debilitating addiction - if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh - and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off - divorce filing states debilitating addiction - if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh - and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off - divorce filing states debilitating addiction - if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh - and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
The Drugs, Affaires, and maybe low self esteem may have played a huge part with him dealing with her loss. It wasn’ easy to move on from, but with time he was in a new relationship. Chris and venessa, you two really need to just talk some stuff out alone with out all this bullshit people are trying to feed yall. Home is the safest place w a few friends that care for both of you. Go back so cassie doesn’t have to hug your clothes in the closet to get a sent off your shirt. You an V know who you can call and be there to help. No sides, no opinions…..just support. At least for a few hours so the kids can enjoy you. Give all these dumb ass readers something else to fight about. Me, My sis, and Roy are hehind both of you.
05.12.2008 | 10:06 pm | Link
Team Me wrote:
Dumb ass readers? excuse me Janet but you are the one who is provoking more readers to come on here and read your bullshit.. and everyone can see you are hooked on this, cause you keep leaving comments.. Don’t you think by you “trying” to justify Chris and Veneesa situation you are going to change peoples thoughts.. Honestly you should not even be on here putting your famlies business out there… Chris and Veneesa can make there own desicion… Honestly the only reason people are so hooked on Chris and Veneesa is because Chris is Selena’s widower.. plain and simple..
05.13.2008 | 9:26 am | Link
eva wrote:
for those of us in cc at the pizza place u know what im talking about we did see chris eating with some pretty girl. i dont know if it was melissa but she was pretty. i dont think the marriage is over yet so he should not be going out in public with her yet. its just not right. vanessa is at home with the kids and he is riding and eating out with her and i dont think it makes him look any better.
05.13.2008 | 12:37 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
soul mates dont cheat on each other! go figure , this is really some funny stuff to read. soul mates don’t get married at the court house….!
05.13.2008 | 2:54 pm | Link
ARTP wrote:
I THINK IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT IF YOU MARRY IN THE COURT HOUSE OR NOT!! SOME PPL GET MARRIED AND HAVE A BIG BASH AND LAST 6 MONTHS..JUST LOOK AT ALL THE CELEB’S NOW…THATS A REAL DUMB COMMENT…BESIDES IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT SEL AND CHRIS YOU MUST KNOW THERE BOTH DEFFERENT RELIGIONS…
05.13.2008 | 4:00 pm | Link
JP wrote:
Fighting on the internet is like being in the Special Olympics. Even if you “win” - you’re still a retard.
05.13.2008 | 4:21 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
AW-COME ON SURELY THEY MARRY ANYONE AT KINGDOM HALL LOL! NO REALLY SOULMATES DONT CHEAT EACH OTHER!
IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE YOU TAKE CARE OF THEM AND PROTECT THEM. O WELL
05.13.2008 | 10:20 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Selena and Chris were different religions? Huh, didn’t know that!!
05.14.2008 | 2:18 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Know what? he was what ever they told him to be?
At this point if you don’t have a conscience to honor the “Lord” your nothing…..know a lot more than you think it’s one thing to read and hear about all this stuff and another to be around it even when she was still alive. Im one of the insiders…..you can’t fool me
05.14.2008 | 2:50 pm | Link
lipo suction team wrote:
good luck to MJ and Chris? what a joke… we all know this is straight up a business deal. Out of all the men in the music business why Chris? Get Real!
It won’t belong before she realizes what conn-artist they are and moves along to next trick. Chris is making a big mistake picking lust over his family.
As for Venessa, girl this is a blessing in some weird way. You are still young and can move on. And meet someone worthy of you and your children’s lives.
Having an affair is a selfish act. One will answer to “God”.
I fear God do you all?
I would hate to hurt my kids in anyway so I do the right thing…even when you alls husbands want me.lol you must know what you have…..
Lead us not into temptation…
05.14.2008 | 3:08 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
What are you talking about? Are you saying that Selena’s family told him who and what to worship? That is crap. Selena didn’t seem like the type to force Chris to do anything he didn’t want.
05.14.2008 | 3:14 pm | Link
lipo suction team wrote:
YUP!
05.14.2008 | 5:42 pm | Link
ARTP wrote:
wow but melissa is very young 24 if im not mistaking….
05.15.2008 | 8:55 am | Link
JENNIE wrote:
Selena was Jehovah’s Witness and Chris Catholic. i believe
05.15.2008 | 4:45 pm | Link