Follow Up To Chris Perez’s Divorce
If there is something we have learned since we started latingossip.com is that there is always more than one side to a story…
On Wednesday, we mentioned that Chris Perez’s wife, Vanessa, had filed for divorce. The first version we heard was that he was partying too much…if you get what we mean.
NOW, we’re hearing that Vanessa is no saint herself. Rumor has it that she wants to become a celebrity and thought that being with Chris and the connections with The Quintanillas would help her achieve fame. Obviously, her plan failed…
PLUS, there are accusations that BOTH sides have been having flings on the side…so apparently nobody has been faithful. Never good.
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Lola wrote:
Here we go! Like we didn’t expect this girl to start being trashed…………Chris should just go ahead and change his last name to Quintanilla……………
05.02.2008 | 9:30 am | Link
Karina Vidal wrote:
I HATE WHEN GIRLS HACEN ESO!! POR ESO DICEN QUE TODAS SOMOS IGUALES =( PERO NO ES CIERTO HAY GOOD GIRLS EN ESTE MUNDO!!
05.02.2008 | 11:42 am | Link
AA wrote:
Tontos never learn. They marry (alleged) strippers who (allegedly) use hard-core drugs and expect them to turn into saints as soon as the wedding bells ring.
Sorry no link, I’ve just heard if from sooo many people in Corpus. On the other hand, not too many have good things to say about the ABQ gang (from La Conquista to DJ Cane to all the backup dancer dudes) in CC. They aren’t choirboys either..as evidenced by their hijinx on the chisme shows all the damn time.
05.02.2008 | 2:08 pm | Link
AA wrote:
Also, is my screen resolution bad or is Chris wearing an eyepatch? Now he’s a pinche pirate?
05.02.2008 | 2:11 pm | Link
Missy wrote:
this is interesting especially since AB posted on his blog announcement on the KumbiaAllStarz myspace on March 31 that Chris was NOT leaving the band ‘n wanted to stop the rumors. maybe his wife was mad about it and wanted him to leave but he didnt. all of CC is talking about it iam sure
05.02.2008 | 9:48 pm | Link
MexicanBOY wrote:
ATTENTION WHORES!!
WHO CARES??
05.03.2008 | 2:23 pm | Link
Moi wrote:
Él es el tabaquismo y caliente No me importa si se trata de un perro o no sólo quiero probarlo
05.03.2008 | 4:04 pm | Link
alessandraJordan wrote:
MEXICAN BOY. stfu! if you didnt care why are leaving a comment, and why are you reading about this then?
05.03.2008 | 6:03 pm | Link
alessandraJordan wrote:
Well, I wish them both the best in dealing with this situation. I hope they think about their two beautiful kids and what is going to work for them because they are the people who brought them into this world. I wish Chris the BEST in his music career as in his personal life. He has been through alot over the years if he can move on with his life get re-married and have kids after the loss of Selena then he can make it through ANYTHING. Even though I dont know Vanessa but, o wish her the best in moving on with this divorce. And maybe someday she can find someone who will be there for her emotionally and physicall. At the end of the day, I hope this two AMAZING parents reliaze THEY NEED TO MAKE A DECISON THAT WILL BENFIT THEIR KIDS IN THE LONG RUN. Best of luck to this family.
05.03.2008 | 6:13 pm | Link
moi wrote:
FInally here are some pics of Chris Perezs wife///soon to be ex-wife Vanessa
\http://members.tripod.com/~cincosouls/family.html
05.04.2008 | 11:59 am | Link
JR wrote:
For everybody reading this article above. The most believable of these allegations is that chris was partying too much. He’s on the road with AB and his gang and do u think after a show they just go to bed?? of course not!! They want to party and when u have money the partying can get out of hand and could make the most loving house wife want a divorce. as for vanessa wanting to become a celebrity? i dont see this is possible when she made no attempt at a singing career and also went straight to having kids so a modeling career is out the window as well.
05.06.2008 | 5:36 pm | Link
DoraJean wrote:
I feel bad for the kids thats the sad thing about it as for them they are adults they can handle anything but not the kids they are innocent & as far as the gossip of Vanessa wanting to become somebody that is a lied she just wanted to be married to husband that she wanted at home after his job & as far as Chris going on with AB THE PIG
now lets see if AB will replace his family kids are not replaceable those are your kids, your blood, & proud of them. That is sad i feel bad for Chris
05.06.2008 | 7:54 pm | Link
Shantell wrote:
What can this ex stripper expect, for Chris to become a saint after she would do drugs with him?
05.06.2008 | 8:16 pm | Link
Carla wrote:
Everyone knows that we all have one true love in our lives and thats what Chris Perez had with Selena. After her tragic death, he hit rock bottom and Venessa instead of helping him through that has dragged him even deeper along the years. You are supposed to help your husband get out of drugs and lead him into the right path. How can you see the father of your children drink himself to death and not do anything about it. Now people want to bring AB Quintanilla into this, sure blame someone else for it why dont you. The reality is that everyone in the band knew that Chris was cheating on her because they all know the girl, even Venessa does so why does she wait until now to divorce him.
05.07.2008 | 9:17 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
venessa never wanted fame and she and no there was NO FORTUNE!!!!! she is a beatuiful and loving mother and was a very supportive wife. she Never wanted this divorce she wanted to stick this through no matter what. She just honored his wishes. she Never cheated and still honors her marriage to this day. she devoted all of her self to this marriage 100%. She still loves him. so please stop any rumers bacause it will only hurt the kids in the long run
05.07.2008 | 11:29 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
venessa never wanted fame and she and no there was NO FORTUNE!!!!! she is a beatuiful and loving mother and was a very supportive wife. she Never wanted this divorce she wanted to stick this through no matter what. She just honored his wishes. she Never cheated and still honors her marriage to this day. she devoted all of her self to this marriage 100%. She still loves him. so please stop any rumers bacause it will only hurt the kids in the long run
05.07.2008 | 11:29 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
The one that should also think about the children is her. Doesn’t she realize that by going public with this, she is only hurting the children. All that is being said in the press is not going away. Years from now her children can see what her mother was doing to their father. I dont argue or deny the accusations of drug use, but she needs to admit that she is no angel herself when it comes to that. Did she forget already that she did or still does drugs? Chris loves his children and will be there for them no matter what. Does smoking weed with your husband mean that you’re being a supportive wife? Lets be honest here and not only disclose what Chris is doing wrong, she has her part too.
05.07.2008 | 3:20 pm | Link
Tea wrote:
Carla, I have to agree with you. This has apparently been an open secret and Venessa has gotten into some public altercations with this “other” woman on MySpace several times and, in fact, that is what led to her making her profile private. Also, it seems that she is the one who wanted to be a rocker chick so she made him into a rocker but then he went off on a different path that she could not contain. She’s going around telling people that she loves him with all her heart but she is letting him go because she thinks someone else is trying to steal his heart. What drama! Firstly, she’s known all along that he had a problem with substance abuse – he was already into it when they met in 1997. And, as someone has pointed out here, she was smoking weed, too. Plus, she’s made myriad comments about his drinking in posts on various MySpace profiles. Secondly, if she only “thinks” that someone else is trying to steal his heart (what drama!) why did she initiate the divorce? More importantly, why is she seeking a restraint order against him, a lien on his earnings and property, and discouraging interaction with his kids (he apparently is not too keen on having interactions with his son btw). Of course, it’s a horrible situation but she’s done nothing to try and curtail it. If anything, she’s been quite, um, supportive of it! I suppose if she could pull off fooling him about not knowing who Selena was, she can fool other people as well. I don’t think this is about her wanting to be famous or not. It’s about a marriage gone horribly wrong but I think she’s contributed her fair share to things being where they are. I think there’s a fine line between being supportive and being complict.
05.07.2008 | 6:18 pm | Link
team venessa wrote:
OK LOOK ALL OF YOU STUPID FUCKS CAN STOP TALKING TRASH ABOUT MY AUNT OK?!?!? ITS NOT HER FAULT OR ANYTHING CHRIS IS THE ONE WHO IS FUCKING HER OVER SO DONT BE TALKING SHIT UNLESS YOU GOT YOUR INFORMATION YOU STUPID SHITHEADS!!!
PS:LEAVE MY AUNT ALONE!!!!
05.08.2008 | 1:14 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
and chris aint no saint either chris does fucking coke and weed and he cheated on venessa im her fucking family you stupid dip shits i wouldnt lie about this crap!!!
05.08.2008 | 1:18 am | Link
Missy wrote:
And I guess her fling with her buddy Eric over in Corpus makes all of that okay…….she was out partying it up this past weekend. Know that about your Aunt??
If she thinks she is gonna get her hands on his property that he owned with Selena, she’s in for a real fight. The Quintanillas will never allow that. And as for her not knowing who Selena was, that’s crap. She knew.
05.08.2008 | 8:06 am | Link
TM wrote:
How did she go public with it? she filed for divorce, gave reasons why she thinks Chris should have supervised visits…thats what you do when you divorce. She didn’t invite those cameras down to the court house…you could tell she was mad they were there. The documents became public and that’s how people are finding out…shes hasn’t once said n e thing to the media about what happened. There are two sides of the story and nobody knows either side right now and its nobodies business.
05.08.2008 | 8:54 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Well “Tea” I have to agree with you on almost everything, but I will have to disagree on the part about him not being too fond of spending time with his son. If there is something no one can deny is that Chris loves his kids with all his heart. The reason being on the road was so hard for him was because he didn’t like being away from his kids. His two kids are his life, he would do anything to protect them and he will be there for them no matter what. Hopefully his soon to be ex wife does not make it hard for him to continue being a father to those kids after the divorce. If anyone is from Corpus, it is no secret that she is seeing Eric on the side. Why does she complain about Chris being with this other girl then?
05.08.2008 | 9:50 am | Link
Tea wrote:
Hey Team Chris, to be perfectly candid, I was very surprised to read that he was not “necessarily” seeking access to Noah. In fact, that has been used as the underlying reason for requesting restricted interaction with Cassie.
As for the Team Venessa fuckhead, yeah, go tell your slut of an aunt that her bluff of playing the poor damsel who’s been oh-so-supportive and innocent has been called one too many times. If she’s such a fucking “private person” why does she live out her life in full MySpace view? If you’re so sensitive about your aunt, maybe you should be commiserating with her instead of trying to fool people here.
05.08.2008 | 10:15 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
everybody needs to leave these two people alone. for one venessa comes to corpus she comes to corpus to spend time with her family. her sisters her brothers and her father. its nobodys business that he is very ill. what i think its nobodys businiess that shes in corpus. you are in saying that there is an affair with this guy Eric. i know for a fact she has been faithfull with chris for the past 11 years. and i have my facts straight not like you all whom do not have your facts straight. venessa is a clean hearted woman who cares about her kids and husband. she cares about her family and espically her father who is sick right now. i know too chris is a lovinf father who loves his daughter and truly loves his son. but its hard too be a rock star and too be a family man at the same time. you cant leave your private life away from your public life you cannot combine it it doesnt work. either you lose one or the other. appraently what happened here the parting could not stop once he came back to his family. so thats why theres a break up in this marriage. yes she might have her faults too. but its hard too be a mother to be a wife and to be a friend to his party friends. but i think it took more of a person and thats her to put a stop to this beacause there are children involved. because you dont want your children to become drug addicts. that is why she is doing what shes doing to put a stop to it
05.08.2008 | 10:18 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
there is no affair with a man named eric. i am her sister and she was with me in corpus . not with a man named eric. tea you dont know my sister and calling her those names were uncalled for. shes a beautiful person and anyone that knows her knows that she would give the shirt off her back. so would chris for that matter. i love both of them and i think all this word calling is unnessary. you hurting people you dont know. she never wanted the fame and she never contacted anyone one about this divorce. it bacame public once the court documents were out. she is a very private person. she never let anyone take any pictures of her in the entire 11 years they were together. all she wanted was a loving home for her family. she will always love her husband no matter what . as for the kids she would never stop him from seeing anyone of them. chris loves them both equally. so please watch what names your calling someone you dont know. just for the record what you call the kids mother will be read by other people and the one that will be hurt is her daughter because her friends parents read this stuff and they will one tell her and that is not neccessary. your hurting a child you dont know. so please watch your name calling remember the kids will hear about this and they are inncocent.
05.08.2008 | 10:31 am | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Aside from all the rumors and drama involved with this divorce I sincerely hope that the kids are not hurt in the process. Venessa and Chris will go their separate ways and move on with their lives but the kids will always be there needing their father. Chris is an amazing person and if he’s made bad decisions along the way is because of all the things he’s gone through. Losing the love of your life and TRYING to make a life with someone else is no easy task. You will never love another person like you love your soul mate. Im sorry for Venessa but she could never compete with someone so kind hearted and HONEST like Selena.
05.08.2008 | 11:01 am | Link
Tea wrote:
Hey Venessa’s sister, if you are going to chastise for name-calling, you should begin with some self-reflexivity and admonish your son/daughter for starting the name-calling. You can’t expect him/her to call other people names and for them to not respond in kind. Secondly, please think again before you make sweeping claims like “she never let anyone take any pictures of her in the entire 11 years they were together” because you know that’s not true. Of course, if you mean she never let the media take pictures, then I’ll grant you that but please don’t over-generalize because you, and other people on this website, have seen many pictures of them together. Need I name some that stand out?
As far as your coming to your sister’s defense is concerned, it’s all very well. But don’t obfuscate the issue – it’s not about whether she’s beautiful or kind or whatever. Rather, I think the comment was about affairs/flings/flirtations and getting caught up in semantics is not going to change whatever truth there is out there.
As for the “private person” charade, true, she didn’t ask for the cameras to be at the courthouse but how private can someone be if they send an email to a casual acquaintance saying “bad news…..chris and I are getting a divorce. He moved out a week ago. Im sorry to say….I still love him with my whole heart.I think theres someone else trying to take his heart away so I have to let him go. V”?
I can’t help but wonder if you’re the same sister who was tracking two of Chris’ pictures up for sale on eBay a few years ago. In fact, when the pictures sold, you got in touch with the winning bidder and offered to have the pictures signed by Chris and embarked on a three year email exchange with this person during which time you sent her a picture of Chris and Venessa’s wedding but, of course, with the request to not share it. Not just that, but you also sent her a CPB t-shirt. So, with such mixed messages, please don’t be surprised if people don’t fall for this whole “privacy” thing.
And finally, maybe Cassie needs to have new friends if their parents are such lowballs that they would read stuff off of gossip websites and go tell her. Peace!
05.08.2008 | 11:55 am | Link
team venessa wrote:
we never sold pictures of chris on ebay. he sold his cd’s which he autographed. which he new about. i also met a great person from that sale and yes befriended her for 3 years. also she bought the cpb shirt off ebay. so get your facts straight.
as for my daughter she never sent that message. it was somebody else. i have no idea who.
as for cassies friends everyone is reading all of this so you should watch what you say. its just not cool.
tea i dont know you but please just watch whom your hurting. these are great people who are just going thru something alot couples go through. it just so happens they hit the spot light. please be kind and dont shoot daggers. everyone has feelings and sometimes words can hurt when someone is real down.
if you knew venessa you would know shes a good soul . chris is just as wonderful.
god bless you tea.
05.08.2008 | 12:14 pm | Link
Missy wrote:
Here’s a question:
If cameras were at the courthouse when she filed her papers, how would any of the media know to be there, unless she (or someone she knew) tipped them off? If it was such a private thing, then how come it turned not so private so fast? Just a thought…..
AND I haven’t seen any pictures from her at the courthouse anywhere in the paper or on the net. If you know where they ended up, please let me know.
05.08.2008 | 12:43 pm | Link
Team Chris wrote:
Thanks “tea” for all the facts, you’re really letting people know what the truth is.
05.08.2008 | 1:08 pm | Link
Chris Perez VS Venessa Villanueva Perez - Latin Gossip wrote:
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05.08.2008 | 1:48 pm | Link
JENNIE wrote:
i hope chris is doing ok!! i love him and his music…but omg i cant believe everything that is happenning with them. also she knew who Chris was and who he was with…Selena is know worldwide and so is Chris as her loving husband…i hope chris the best and his childern as well..
also about her not wanting her kids to be drug addicts i think that is a messed up thing to say…not because your parents are drug addicts means that you will be one… ppl make there own choices and just blam it on other ppl….but i love and respect Chriss. i will always fallow Chris where ever get goes! keep your head up Chris! much love
p.s
i cant believe she didnt know who Selena was and sjes from Courpus!! was she living under a rock!
05.08.2008 | 2:35 pm | Link
cat wrote:
i wish chris, venessa, and especially the kids the best. divorce are tough, and often times hard to cope with. i’m sure it is a sad situation for not only chris, venessa, and the kids but also for both the perez and villanueva families. may god bless you all!
05.08.2008 | 3:45 pm | Link
Jen wrote:
Just a note to all of Chris’ and Vanessa’s family & Friends. You all are pretty sad. You sit here and talk crap back and forth and say this and that but none of you knows what goes on in their bedroom or house at all times, and people especially mexicans, exagerate con el chisme. Drugs are harsh but it seems like they both participated and maybe they should both go to rehab for the sake of their children. No one here should throw stones because we all have skeletons. I am a fan and will always be. He will overcome this just like he did all of the other obsticales that have been put before him. As far as his daughters friends reading this and telling her stuff seems like both sides are guilty of saying negative things. If you really love them the way you say you do just pray that they get through this and survive. You all are just hateful people fighting a fight that is not yours to fight.
05.08.2008 | 4:39 pm | Link
M wrote:
Like I said on the other page… Everyone needs to get their facts straight. No more rumors. Come on people…. I have a feeling I know who everyone is on this page and its really sad. Twisting words to try to get your side to be the best.(from Myspace?? Please…) Looks like you are the one sticking your nose where it doesn’t belong. Grow up! People get divorced every day, marraiges fail, people go on. Its really sad that people make things worse than they are. Why do you think Britney went psyco?? Media, rumors and false drama. I can pretty much guarantee that the divorce wouldn’t have been as eventful if people would have just minded their own business. Again I will say GROW UP and I am done with this site. You can talk all the stuff you want and just remember ……. What goes around comes around.. The truth will come out and honestly… God will take care of the rest. PEACE!!!
05.08.2008 | 7:47 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Pls! Not eveyone knew who selena was. And those of you in the click knew selena wanted a divorce too! She was about to leave Chris and her sorry ass band! She was miserable! I know this for a fact! Venessa good luck too you you deserve more in life!
Good luck to kumbia queer coke heads! Kookoo lol so gay!
05.08.2008 | 11:43 pm | Link
Jessica wrote:
I wish Selena was still alive! Chris would have been so much happier…. Don’t worry Chris everything will work out for the best…
05.09.2008 | 9:17 am | Link
Rose wrote:
There is always two sides to a divorce. One I can see Vanessa being a money hungry person because if she wants all the properties and not let Chris have somewhere for him. She says that she wants to work on it well if that’s the case she shouldn’t have filed for divorce. On the other hand if Chris is doing all types of partying and drugs then that will take a toll on a marriage. The only ones that know what is going on behind closed doors are those two and it shouldn’t have been made public. No matter what is said of written, the children always are the ones who hurt the most. I hope for everyone involved Chris and Vanessa can come to a happy medium for the kids sakes.
05.09.2008 | 10:05 am | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Lets just face the facts here. Chris still loves Selena and no other woman will ever match up to her. Enough said!
05.09.2008 | 11:19 am | Link
Nunya wrote:
as i thought this sight is biased. sad, that you just want to be a breeding ground for hate and dicontent by only posting what you think is juicy no matter what the cost i.e. the children that you pretend to care about.
05.09.2008 | 11:25 am | Link
JP wrote:
Why are “friends & family” of these two arguing this on here? Shit with people like that who needs enemies. If you care for, and love, them so much; why not stay quiet. As someone said, why are you fighting a battle that is not yours to fight.
And as for someone stating that the parents of the daughter’s friends read this site and will tell her what is being said. If that is true – those parents are retarded lowlifes and the child should be kept away from them. To lower yourself to the level of a child and tell her negative things that are being said about her parents shows a TREMENDOUS level of immaturity.
05.09.2008 | 1:44 pm | Link
natalie wrote:
um to the person with the comment about selena, you’re getting that bull from yolanda’s rumors and maria celleste’s book. in truth, actually, selena and chris were designing their dream house together, were in the process of purchasing 10 acres of land, she had picked out the furniture for their new house, and the day before she died she told her mom and sister that her and chris wanted to start a family. she had a doctors appointment to get her birth control device removed schedualed for the following tuesday. and to top if off, chris said in an interview “then the last night we were together we said everything to each other. i told her how i felt and she told me how she felt and everything was just perfect, you know?” oh and she had put up stickers on her mirror that read “selena and chris forever” and “i love you, chris.” yeah. i had to do a project on her for school so that’s how i know this…i had to research it all.
and about the chris and venessa thing, its sad. i hope they can possibly work something out and hopefully the kids will be hurt as little as possible.
05.09.2008 | 5:34 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
get over it girl! she’s dead! i hope you got an A on your project you sound obsessed…calm down already!
Selena is in a way better place now. Im sure she turning in her grave over all this. Keep up the good work Psycho Selena fans!
05.09.2008 | 5:46 pm | Link
natalie wrote:
sorry, i didn’t mean to sound obsessed. im actually not, i wouldn’t have time to obsess over anything anyways. haha. i just finished the project this week for spanish, that’s the only way i remember everything, and it was worth a ton of points so that’s why i learned so much. i’m just trying to prove my point. sorry, i didn’t mean to come off mean or obsessed. and ur right, she is in a better place and it’s stupid to discuss it anyways. this whole divorce thing in general with venessa is none of our business. i just wish them the best.
05.10.2008 | 1:06 am | Link
George wrote:
wow, the basura really shows up on here sometimes. vanessa is a hoe, flat out. if there any doubt, even among her loyal family members, ask any of the guys who remember her back in her stripper days! isnt it funny how the worst of the low-lifes are always such wonderful people? straight “A” students and model parents and all-around great citizens? our government has it all wrong; we’re sending all these great people to prison. she’s trash from a family of trash.
05.10.2008 | 1:10 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Dont all men love hoe’s…i mean shit, as bad to even get married! go figure….
05.10.2008 | 9:24 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
Noah and Cassie, you’re mommy and daddy love you very much and would never ever try to hurt you. I’m so sorry that you will later hear or read all this stuff being said about the two most important people in your life, and you shouldn’t let it hurt you. Mommy and Daddy aren’t the ones saying this stuff, only ugly hearted and hateful people
Venessa, I know your hearts in the right place and people are real quick to assume and judge out of just ignorance. I know it sucks to open up to someone and trust them with your life via phone,
e-mail (MySpace) and they in turn betray you, but they will never really know the real damage and suffering that is involved. They will get what’s coming to them. I’ll pray for all of you to overcome other people’s hate.
Chris….people have made it so hard for you to move on with your life; You have every right to move on and love again. I don’t understand why people would condemn you for loving and having a family. I know it’s effected you so I’m apologizing for them, because they know no better. You and Venessa both have a past and the beautiful thing is that you two accepted eachother and loved eachother with yalls faults. The Love is Still There.
Dallas, take care of the family while things get worked out. Don’t allow all the hateful things to come into the house.
05.12.2008 | 1:45 am | Link
ccbling wrote:
In ref to Janet’s coment:
That was well said! This is crazy and out of control like this gives so many people power with words.
At the end no one really knows the truth.
Venessa is great mother and wife & Chris is a good man. We sometimes as humans get caught up in the evils of life. God always has a plan.
God Bless, you both and to the rest of you people who need Christ in your life….
05.12.2008 | 9:37 am | Link
jennieChrisTEAM! wrote:
i agree with Janet i hope everything gets better i just wish chris and His family the best. whatever makes them happy…Chris i also apologies for everyone that has gave you a hard time for moving on. i lost both of my parents and you have to move on abnd be happy thats what they want.and if it doesnt work out well at least you tried. its better to have tried and failed than to have never tried…keep your head up!!! from a True FAN! i wish u and your family the best at heart. take care of him Janet!! and tell him we support him 100% on what ever dission he makes. =)
05.12.2008 | 9:40 am | Link
eva wrote:
thanks so much janet it makes all of us think twice before we write. by the way who is dallas
05.12.2008 | 12:19 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
Dallas is their dog that is so protective of his family. He senses the difference in the children and has become so involved in giving extra comfort and closeness with these very innocent children. It’s so very sad to see the hurt and fear this family is going through on both ends. Love, Money or fame was never the issue. No matter what the issues are it’s up to Chris and Venessa to work out on their own. A mother’s first instinct is to protect her children and Venessa is being critisized for wanting her children to have stability. Chris is a great father and unfortunately has a career that takes him away from them for periods of time, but that does not make him less of a father. There should be no “team Venessa” or “team Chris”. This family has a lot to deal with and knowing that there are such negative people against them doesn’t help.
05.12.2008 | 2:23 pm | Link
JENNIE wrote:
your right Janet…i hope him the best i have never wished them anything bad. i hope things get better. i hope they can work things out for there kids.
05.12.2008 | 2:31 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Sorry Sorry, I don’t mean to be hurtful. It just seems to me that all the drugs, affairs, etc are the product of losing his true soul mate. I wish nothing but the best for Chris and his family. My heart will always go out to him.
05.12.2008 | 4:25 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off – divorce filing states debilitating addiction – if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh – and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off – divorce filing states debilitating addiction – if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh – and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
missy wrote:
Okay…she wanted stability for her kids, but she knowingly married a musician and knew how life is in a band….he accepted her for who she was, so now she is not accepting him for who he is? and if she still loves him, etc, then why isnt she getting him into rehab if he’s that bad off – divorce filing states debilitating addiction – if she loved him so much and wants the kids to have their father, why not get him help? just something to think about. unless of course he really is in love with this other woman and just wants out. Then if that’s the case, I guess Venessa is just going after what she can get since he did that.
oh – and I haven’t seen anything on tv or anywhere else on line about this situation. Can someone tell me where else i can find anything? thanks.
05.12.2008 | 9:33 pm | Link
Janet Perez wrote:
The Drugs, Affaires, and maybe low self esteem may have played a huge part with him dealing with her loss. It wasn’ easy to move on from, but with time he was in a new relationship. Chris and venessa, you two really need to just talk some stuff out alone with out all this bullshit people are trying to feed yall. Home is the safest place w a few friends that care for both of you. Go back so cassie doesn’t have to hug your clothes in the closet to get a sent off your shirt. You an V know who you can call and be there to help. No sides, no opinions…..just support. At least for a few hours so the kids can enjoy you. Give all these dumb ass readers something else to fight about. Me, My sis, and Roy are hehind both of you.
05.12.2008 | 10:06 pm | Link
Team Me wrote:
Dumb ass readers? excuse me Janet but you are the one who is provoking more readers to come on here and read your bullshit.. and everyone can see you are hooked on this, cause you keep leaving comments.. Don’t you think by you “trying” to justify Chris and Veneesa situation you are going to change peoples thoughts.. Honestly you should not even be on here putting your famlies business out there… Chris and Veneesa can make there own desicion… Honestly the only reason people are so hooked on Chris and Veneesa is because Chris is Selena’s widower.. plain and simple..
05.13.2008 | 9:26 am | Link
eva wrote:
for those of us in cc at the pizza place u know what im talking about we did see chris eating with some pretty girl. i dont know if it was melissa but she was pretty. i dont think the marriage is over yet so he should not be going out in public with her yet. its just not right. vanessa is at home with the kids and he is riding and eating out with her and i dont think it makes him look any better.
05.13.2008 | 12:37 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
soul mates dont cheat on each other! go figure , this is really some funny stuff to read. soul mates don’t get married at the court house….!
05.13.2008 | 2:54 pm | Link
ARTP wrote:
I THINK IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT IF YOU MARRY IN THE COURT HOUSE OR NOT!! SOME PPL GET MARRIED AND HAVE A BIG BASH AND LAST 6 MONTHS..JUST LOOK AT ALL THE CELEB’S NOW…THATS A REAL DUMB COMMENT…BESIDES IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT SEL AND CHRIS YOU MUST KNOW THERE BOTH DEFFERENT RELIGIONS…
05.13.2008 | 4:00 pm | Link
JP wrote:
Fighting on the internet is like being in the Special Olympics. Even if you “win” – you’re still a retard.
05.13.2008 | 4:21 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
AW-COME ON SURELY THEY MARRY ANYONE AT KINGDOM HALL LOL! NO REALLY SOULMATES DONT CHEAT EACH OTHER!
IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE YOU TAKE CARE OF THEM AND PROTECT THEM. O WELL
05.13.2008 | 10:20 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
Selena and Chris were different religions? Huh, didn’t know that!!
05.14.2008 | 2:18 pm | Link
ccbling wrote:
Know what? he was what ever they told him to be?
At this point if you don’t have a conscience to honor the “Lord” your nothing…..know a lot more than you think it’s one thing to read and hear about all this stuff and another to be around it even when she was still alive. Im one of the insiders…..you can’t fool me
05.14.2008 | 2:50 pm | Link
lipo suction team wrote:
good luck to MJ and Chris? what a joke… we all know this is straight up a business deal. Out of all the men in the music business why Chris? Get Real!
It won’t belong before she realizes what conn-artist they are and moves along to next trick. Chris is making a big mistake picking lust over his family.
As for Venessa, girl this is a blessing in some weird way. You are still young and can move on. And meet someone worthy of you and your children’s lives.
Having an affair is a selfish act. One will answer to “God”.
I fear God do you all?
I would hate to hurt my kids in anyway so I do the right thing…even when you alls husbands want me.lol you must know what you have…..
Lead us not into temptation…
05.14.2008 | 3:08 pm | Link
TEam Selena wrote:
What are you talking about? Are you saying that Selena’s family told him who and what to worship? That is crap. Selena didn’t seem like the type to force Chris to do anything he didn’t want.
05.14.2008 | 3:14 pm | Link
lipo suction team wrote:
YUP!
05.14.2008 | 5:42 pm | Link
ARTP wrote:
wow but melissa is very young 24 if im not mistaking….
05.15.2008 | 8:55 am | Link
JENNIE wrote:
Selena was Jehovah’s Witness and Chris Catholic. i believe
05.15.2008 | 4:45 pm | Link
savannah wrote:
Vanessa is a horrible person. she should have never done that. So she just used him and her plan didnt work. i hope she feels like shit.
05.30.2008 | 5:48 pm | Link
Tisha wrote:
I read elsewhere that he is still married and they are having a third child, is that true?
06.01.2008 | 1:23 pm | Link
m wrote:
where did you read that? Do you have a link to the story?? wow!!
06.02.2008 | 11:48 am | Link
you idiots wrote:
How do you use someone for that long? Sanvannah?
Is Chris an idiot or what? What plan did she have that back fired. I just think that being married to a musician
is a lot of hard work and pain. For awhile it’s cool but then you get tired of taking care of kids and a drunk husband that is always gone. Why does everyone feel sorry for a grown ass man anyways? Besides what did Mrs.Perez do that was so bad?????? Other than free herself from misery seems like..Good Luck Girl!
06.03.2008 | 12:55 pm | Link
MJ wrote:
Everyone know in the business you screw who you can to get what you want. It’s the thrill of the game!
Girl you will find out it’s not all that..Seek yourself
06.03.2008 | 12:59 pm | Link
victovictoria fuller wrote:
look i really like chris perez but he was aloy better with selena and for him to marry un prostituta el es muy stupido perdon pero el no es moy intelligente
06.26.2008 | 7:03 pm | Link
No Side Taken wrote:
I don’t know Venessa at all, nor do I know Chris personally. But I do know quite a few members of Venessa’s immediate family: father, brothers, cousins. I agree with George, she is from a family of trash. Although that doesn’t automatically make her trash, when the truth comes out about her, it will at least justify why she is trash.
07.01.2008 | 1:27 pm | Link
La Furia wrote:
Everyone out there writing these hateful and rude immature comment’s. Let’s ask ourself , do we really know Chris and Venessa Perez? If you do know them you need to have your facts first before you make assumptions!!!!!! It amazes me that people in the world have no life and judge what’s out there. I can understand that divorces happen everyday, but there’s this one question that we are not asking who Is Melissa Jimenez? Everyone is so focused on one thing, Chris and Venessa’s divorce. Why aren’t we asking about this 24 year old who may have caused the divorce! I mean It’s possible that this could of occured. If he cares about his best interest and career he may one day come clean to the world and tell the truth. But until then It’s okay to be quiet. But If you ask me trying to hide secretive e-mails, late night phone calls, making sure you pack the right clothing for the next trip to seduce your man. And saying that the only time I call you Is when I’m a little tipsy Baby! Developing a friendship first Is cool and then maybe It can lead Into something later. So I’ve heard? Well chris I’m sure you will read this one day and come to the conclusion that real men tell the truth and lay the cards out on the table! I love Venessa and her family very much and the last thing that I want from chris is to lay out a spread sheet of bullshit to the media. Being that he Is very private and shy! “I quess the pepperoni was to hot for you to handle”! LoL
07.26.2008 | 9:08 pm | Link
JoyceLatina wrote:
HELLO EVERYONE, CAN SOMEBODY TELL ME VANESSA’S MYSPACE??
THANX… xoxoxo
08.03.2008 | 5:31 pm | Link
jersey girl wrote:
Wow! i was over at escala and was freaked on how stupid these people act who head bangs to dance music Chris? and Jersey girl done turned into tejano trash. i was in shock to see these pepople act so desperate for attention, for someone who portrays to be famouse you guys sure looked real desperate for attension..no class what so ever.
Im sure it’s gonna get worse……
08.07.2008 | 12:39 am | Link
Miss Jess wrote:
If Chris was happy with his marriage just like the relationship he had with Selena, he would have not done anything to occupy his mind. I hope things will get better for him and find somebody who’s a lot like Selena with a good career so she won’t have to depend on him. A woman who would love him back fully just like what Selena did.
08.23.2008 | 1:16 pm | Link
MIAMI wrote:
PLS EVERYONES KNEW SELENA WAS SICK OF CHRIS SHIT…THERES ONLY SO MUCH YO CAN DO WITH A DRUNK! AS FAR AS MELISSA HOMINEZ IS
IS SHE FOR REAL…FROM WYCLEF TO AB SHE MUST NOT BE THE NXT CHRISTINA AGUILERA IF SHE HAS TO RESORT TO THE QUINTANILLAS. I GUESS THEY ARE ALL DESPERATE AT THIS POINT SELENA REUNION TOUR NO ONE GIVES A SHIT ABOUT THE SUCKY ASS DINOS…PLS! IT WONT BE LONG TILL SHE GETS SCREWED BY THEM. IS IT WORTH SCREWING A BROKE ASS MARRIED MAN???? GIRL COME GET REAL..
08.24.2008 | 12:27 am | Link
Miss Jess wrote:
I think Chris and Selena were happy together. Selena wanting to have 5 children and building a new house with all kinds of animals closeby…Chris must be a really good person at that time.
08.25.2008 | 1:54 am | Link
M wrote:
No one knows the truth but the two that are in the marriage. Get over it people let people live, besides if his new wife wanted his fame, she would have allowed to be interviewed and would be all up in the media….never have you seen that in the past so I really do doubt she wanted him to become famous.
10.23.2008 | 9:27 am | Link
Marianne wrote:
Selena was beautiful and I’m sure that her death affected Chris in ways he probly doesn’t even realize. Its sad that he needs drugs and booze to deal with life. He needs to get help, and I’m sure Vanessa is being compared to Selena all the time. Who could live up to that? Both these people have issues to deal with and its to bad they have to deal with them in public. There are three sides to every story..His…Hers…and the truth.
10.26.2008 | 12:12 pm | Link
alphabet street wrote:
Ok so now Chris has moved on… They funny sh*t iz about to go down the slut Melissa Jimenez is gonna use him..Girl can play you big time, till she gets what she wants. It’s not the first time or the last she sleeps with married men you know who ? It’s all bizzness wright MJ, get it girl…..record the Selena album as you dreamed…then you fly cuz you know your not maken any money with them fools you rollen with in texas..Kumbia Allstarz. thats funny..dont come cryen back to us girl..
11.02.2008 | 1:42 am | Link
Amanda wrote:
LISTEN…. MELISSA JIMENEZ REMEMBER THAT NAME BECAUSE WHEN U SEE HER FACE YOU WILL KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME SHE HAS SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MAN. SHES A WHORE AND A HOMEWRECKER AND HER DAD SUPPORTS THAT *(his been her manager on tour with her and kumbia all starz.. THATS SICK. her own dad supports her sleeping with married men because all that family wants is money and fame. Ask her how she got to stay on SRC and got more money from the CEO steve rifken ask her who which one of scott storch boys she sleep with…) FUCKING DIRTY HO.
12.05.2008 | 11:24 pm | Link
JAPL wrote:
AThing To Remember…..
As people grow and change in different directions some for the better and some for the worse. People can say what they want of what they may or may not know….Ultimately Chris,chose Vanessa after Selena and brought to children to this world. Selena was unique and beautiful, and the woman he chose to love again was Vanessa. There’s gonna be many more woman in and out of his life but none of you others can say you took Chris’s heart after Selena…..Good Luck and To all the others out there who want to say I had a night or chance with Selena’s husband dont forget It was Venessa’s husband now!
01.05.2009 | 9:38 pm | Link
Sasha wrote:
Hi, my name is Sasha…
After losing somebody its hard.. Ive lost my dad And people say you have to move on.. But in a situation of Selena being so young. And what you two had…. She’s waiting up there for you. You and nobody can ever love eachother the way you loved Selena and the way she loved you. This life is too short. You can only do what you can to hold on everyday, but in heaven you live forever. I couldnt move on, if I were you, to me its not that I cant move on, but it would be that I dont want to move on.. Selena was your wife, and you two will be togather again someday. You have to believe that, and even though you cant see her, she’s with you and her family everyday. So I think you just need to hang in there and keep strong.. God Bless Your family. Chris Perez…. stick with the Quintanillas… They are your true family and love. It’s what in your heart. Dont ever forget anything. And stay strong.. You will all be home soon.
03.20.2009 | 7:21 pm | Link
moa_bazan wrote:
Everyone who cries over Chris’ loss should really get over it– he had something taken away from him, but he decided to marry venessa and raise children with her; if he wanted to carry on selena’s tribute he could have remained a widower and taken care of her image– not squander it and hide with the quintanillas. every person has a past but that does not define them forever. no one is blameless, and venessa as the mother, and still legally, his wife, deserves respect, not the slander of pathetic pinche no nothings.
03.29.2009 | 5:33 pm | Link
Lauren wrote:
chris doesn’t even need to have a witch like venessa how can he just sit down and take this shit selena and chris belonged together venessa was just using chris to get back at him for marrying the love of his life selena! Chris I am sorry about this whole thing you don’t deserve a witch like venessa I hope you get what you deserve because you loved selena first not venessa! Chris you don’t need to take venessa’s shit just know selena loves you and you love selena and that is all that should have happen venessa you don’t understand what is at stake here selena was beautiful and popular don’t you even take anything from selena and chris and selena’s family!
04.20.2009 | 8:25 pm | Link
d loves m wrote:
first of all i love selena quintanilla and all u people out there who have negative things 2 say about her need to get a life chris is a grown man and can make his own decisions and he still has that true love 4 selena she may be gone but shes never forgotten by chris he loves his kids but also selena so get over it selena 4ever how dare some of u people say bad things about her after the tragic way she died it shows how spiteful and hateful ur hearts are
04.26.2009 | 11:35 pm | Link
LG wrote:
why is everyone arguing about somebody elses relationship? every body is going to have their opinions and yeah you won’t agree with them all the time. just let them be and let Selena rest in peace.
05.04.2009 | 10:54 pm | Link
angel wrote:
i dont think that chris should of moved on bott if that is what he wanted to do he should and he should not lissen to what other people says because i think that he still remembers selena from his hart.
06.09.2009 | 5:55 am | Link
i read the whole thing 4 no reason wrote:
im not taking either side but Chris only started drugs nd stuff because he had lost the main person in his life.i hope the children dont suffer 2 much
07.30.2009 | 5:08 pm | Link
SELENA LIVES IN HEARTS!! wrote:
that Vanessa is a b!tch!!! I AM SAYIN SHE A GOLD DIGGER!!! hah karma will come back on her
08.16.2009 | 2:36 am | Link
LA CHOLA wrote:
Selena was the best wife he ever had! Maybe he never got over Selena.
09.15.2009 | 5:43 pm | Link
brissa wrote:
All i gotta say is…you can’t turn a HO into a HOUSEWIFE! once a HO always a HO sad but true..
and as for CHRIS PEREZ he knew what he had when he married VANNESA……but being that he was being taken advantage he got screwed in the worse way! the way i see it is….chris needed a shoulder to cry on a friend not someone who was going to take advantage of his situation…and when you marry a stripper and a drug abuser , this is what your going to have to go through , let this be a lesson to all you HORNY men hahahah!
stay out of nasty late night strip clubz and stop giving STRIPPERS & GOLD DIGGERS your 80% and only giving your RIDE OR DIE WIFE only 20% after all she has done for you…….and dont jump to the first stripper that gives you great sex cause in the END you’ll pay for it $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
12.14.2009 | 1:13 pm | Link
brissa wrote:
AND BY THE WAY…WHO DF IS MELISSA? LMAO NOBODY I KNOW EVEN KNOWS WHO SHE IS!…AND IM SURE ITS GOING TO STAY LIKE THAT….NOT ONE FAN OF SELENA’S WILL SUPPORT THE USED UP BITCH….AND FROM WHAT IM HEARING ABOUT HER SHE MIGHT AS WELL GO BACK TO BEING A COCK SUCKING WHORE THAT SHE IS!
12.14.2009 | 1:31 pm | Link
suzette wrote:
So sad. People need to be ashamed. Does anyone know V or chris personally? Has anyone seen or heard these stories themselves? Were they present?
No. Everyone is just following the herd. A whole lot of he said she said. For people who actually go on a website a believe what they read 100% has got to be the dumbest person alive. In my opinion it shows stupidity, naiveness and immaturity. Almost cruelty for believing in “writing” when not even knowing where it came from, who wrote it and why.
Lot of hateful people out there bored with there own lives, probably depressed and choose to get there sadness anger and revenge out on the “internet” but disguise themselves by putting a fake name.
If Selena knew about this she’d be shocked at how people were acting. Especially all the negativity written about Chris. Does anyone really believe that if Chris was such a horrible person or “messed up” person that Selena would have fallen in love with him? In fact Marry him?
Everyone needs to get a reality check and move on
12.22.2009 | 3:47 am | Link
Cathy wrote:
It is a shame that this will be on the net fior the children to read. That Selena and Chris loved each other that was obvious that she was a Jehovah Witness I dont believe so but regardless she has the the hope of the resurrection now. Chris had to move on and as far as Vanessa I dont know anything or really need to know Chris chose her and married her that it has come to an end its a shame because too many suffer. Sure if Selena was alive they would been together but that is not what happend so whatever or whoever you are lets show Christian spirit and show the fruit of love for Vanessa, Chris and the kids and the Quintanillas that are still attached to this out of respect for all let the thread end here “For he without sin throw the first stone”
01.21.2010 | 8:56 pm | Link
Amy Deleon wrote:
Im too am in recovery and have been clean for 13 years. The death of my sister triggered that for me. So I can definately relate to that part of it.. But if that crazy woman is trying to become famous over this something is very wrong with her. I mean the poor guy has been through alot and definately dont need a goldigger 4sure, but cant blame him for moving on.
03.18.2010 | 5:55 pm | Link
Amy Deleon wrote:
I understand how things are when someone close to you dies un expectedly. I lost my sister and stayed high for several years. But there comews a time to move on and accept what we cannot change
03.18.2010 | 5:59 pm | Link
TeamChris wrote:
Everyone……Knows when chris lost selena: it seem like he lost everything
he had!! you can see it in his eyes that hes soo deeply lost. maybe he drink to much or do drugs. it mite be just his way of trying to get thru the pain and life!! maybe he was tryin to find the love that him and selena shared.in vanessa and just couldnt find it… bout vanessa i dont know her soo im not goin to judge her.To Everyone keeping sayin that he was cheating on her..yall dont freaking know that soo Shut up.. leave chris perez along!!! like i said hes lost he need help to find hes way back
04.23.2010 | 12:47 am | Link
aleecia hilliard wrote:
Selena was the love fo chris live and stll is. when selena died chirs is still in pain over losseing selena.
07.30.2010 | 8:54 pm | Link