Myrka Dellanos has officially lifted the restraining order against her husband, Ulysses Alonso, despite calling the cops on him for a domestic violence issue.
Obviously, this is so he can be near her without getting in trouble.
We’re still worried for her and her daughter…
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JP wrote:
They were having a discussion about this on Despierta America this morning. You could tell alot of them were disappointed with her actions and the message that it sends; especially to her daughter who was present during the whole situation.
Their main question was how can Myrka now say nothing happened when there is a police report and they have her on tape calling 911 and telling them what he did to her. She looks like a total idiot.
08.28.2008 | 11:27 am | Link
celeste wrote:
This is ridiculous!!! Myrka, YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!! What is wrong with you???? people do make mistakes, but you need to have respect for yourself, and your daughter! What kind of advice will you give her if she ever goes through domestic violence someday… I know you want to be happy, but if he can come hit you in your home in front of your daughter, What kind of respect does he have for her, and yourself? May god help you think through this.
08.28.2008 | 11:43 am | Link
Steve Baxley wrote:
Well…we tried, now she must live with her decision.
El Gossiper, I make this strong prediction
If she doesnt heed the warnings and advice of her friends,colleagues,and others to get out !! its over and she has sealed her fate.
08.28.2008 | 11:46 am | Link
Texmex wrote:
As a counselor for battered women, I can tell you guys that her actions are pretty much standard issue when it comes to domestic violence. Statistics say that a woman wil leave her abuser about 7 times before finally leaving for good. So I guess this telenovela will just keep on going for a while. I feel for the child… what kind of enviornment she is in??? I have no doubt that CPS is involved also, because of the fact that the girl was there… not a good deal any way you look at it.
Mirka don’t wait until the 7th time. Batterers will not change no matter how many times he apologizes and tells you that he will never do it again… it will happen again, WAKE UP!!!
08.28.2008 | 12:12 pm | Link
Diana wrote:
i just feel sorry for her, and I’m also disappointed … I can’t believe she is taking him back “trying to work it out” she is beautiful, smart, gorgeous, she does not deserve to live with that fear and that abusive man.. After hearing that 911 call and reading the police reports i can’t understand why she doesn’t leave that man right away… hope she comes to her sense..
08.28.2008 | 12:49 pm | Link
KARINA VIDAL wrote:
Ay Myrka….
08.28.2008 | 12:58 pm | Link
cosmos wrote:
a parte de feo! pegador! lol
08.29.2008 | 2:02 pm | Link
Ailena wrote:
I feel bad for her…and the worst part is that she is setting up an example..alot of women are going to say “well, it happened to Myrka, she is educated, she has a career and money and she gave him a second chance”
08.29.2008 | 4:05 pm | Link
Ally wrote:
I feel badly for her, BUT she should be ashamed of herself. This is exactly what keeps setting us back as women!
She will be the first to sit there and make all these claims that she is independent and successful and a professional and doesn’t need anybody, etc. etc. and she allows this little snot-nosed kid to smack her around in front of HER daughter, sending the message that as long as they say sorry, or buy chocolates or whatever it’s okay to “forgive” a man. She is just desperate. Desperate because she refuses to let it be known that after making such an idiot of herself after the whole Luis Miguel debacle, she can add another failed relationship to her list. BIG deal - who cares, find another one.. She should be more worried about her life and the life of her daughter. There is NO excuse for this. NONE.
08.29.2008 | 4:06 pm | Link
marl wrote:
poor myrka what else would she expect from an immature young guy like ulysses?
08.30.2008 | 4:54 am | Link
J Glenn wrote:
Thank you TexMex for some sanity in this discussion.
Ally, to say this is “what sets us back as women” is so hypocritical….blaming the person with less power..HE’s the one who did wrong, not her.
No person should have to be “perfect” to be respected….or none of us can be. That’s the trap we women set for each other & ourselves.And it only hurts us, not men & keeps us down.
She’s scared, she’s wanting to believe it can get better (it won’t), he may have isolated her from supportive friends & family, and she may still LOVE him. Our feelings aren’t always rational; if we always stopped caring/loving when someone did us wrong, would music exist? Would art? Abuse shatters your belief in yourself on a gut level; it’s easy to say “I’d never stand for that” but don’t judge until it’s happened to you.
08.30.2008 | 8:10 am | Link
Ally wrote:
J Glenn, Never in my response did I say it is her fault she got hit. I clearly stated there was NO excuse for this (meaning his abuse of her) - What I personally do NOT agree with, is for her lifting the restraining order and “trying to work it out”. She’s been married less than 6 months. How long hs she “known” him? A year maybe? and what can possibly be “worked out” with someone who can beat you around??
Listen, she could be as in love, or in lust, or needing a companion or not realizing she’s being mistreated, BUT first and foremost as a MOTHER, she has a responsibility to her daughter. Her daughter’s safety and well-being should be her main concern. It is NOT right for her daughter to have to witness her mother being smacked around, or to hear her mother’s life be threatened. It is because of people’s lack of accountability toward their children that we end up with children being beaten or mistreated by the boyfriends or husbands (even those who are the kids’ fathers). I’m sorry if anybody disagrees with me. but I feel like MANY women put themselves before their children and that is just wrong. I don’t think you have to be perfect, but you do have to be an example to your children (good or bad.) I don’t know her, I don’t know her situation but as far I am concerned I would LOVE to know what she thinks she should be “working out” with her husband of 5 months who dared to put his hands on her. If that’s “love” then I hope I’m never in love. (and by the way, I have a child and I’m married. I would NEVER put anyone before my son.) My opinion. that’s all.
08.30.2008 | 9:43 pm | Link